Children learn from watching others.

• If you want them to be on time, you should be, too.
• If you want them to pick up their clothes, you should pick up your own.
• If you want them to speak softly, so should you.
• If you want them to be polite, you should use "please," "thank you," etc., when talking with your children and others.
• If you want them to stick to limits, you should set your own limits and stick to them.